The Art Of Communication

Communication is truly a mastery of art. When considering the many different variables to it such as verbal, written, body language, tone and cadence- it’s deeply complex yet beautiful altogether. It’s full of substance and value if used correctly. It provides comfort and support when given to others genuinely. It consequently can be weaponized during moments of frustration or anger. A disconnect from within. However, I love that we have the capacity to use this method with one another. I am thankful for it really. 

How do you communicate with those around you? 

I’m avoidant and dismissive when it comes to communication in conflict. I internally process things, so I require time and quiet to analyze my thoughts, emotions and reactions to the problem being presented. Not always though. Anger, my venom, does make an appearance on occasion. I know deep down I use this as a protective barrier that surrounds my already bruised and scarred heart. 

On the opposite end of the spectrum, I primarily communicate immense love and gratitude to those around me. I’m intentional about who I spend my time with and what I invest in. A wise friend once told me, “you put a lot in your relationships, expect to get a lot out of them.” I don’t particularly give in order to receive, that’s just not who I am. However, when I am lost in sadness or thrilled in excitement; those relationships are mirroring true unconditional loyalty and guidance. There’s immense beauty in this. 

I encourage you to delve deeper into your communication style. Why do you connect and why do you disconnect? Knowing this will help you communicate with purpose and meaning. 

You don’t have to be an artist to communicate with proficiency. Use the power of love in your soul, faith in your heart, and guidance from above to honour how you nourish the relationships around you.