Magnetic Connection
When was the last time you thought about something that makes you feel good? What matters most to you? What brings you peace?
For me, making heart to heart connections with those around me recharges the most inner part of my soul. A true connection is made when I’m listening with my whole body, all senses attuned to the moment. Meaningful things happen when I’m able to give someone my undivided, undistracted attention. In doing so, I’ve created an ever widening ripple effect of continuity and genuine loving kindness in all of my relationships. Cultivating deeper connections is a conscious decision I make to ensure my interactions are wholesome. This brings a smile to my spirit.
What can you do to limit the distractions in your life?
Keeping the connection with others alive can be challenging. It’s easy to get caught up in complacency and the monotonous living we do. Whether it’s work, children, pets, extracurricular activities, cooking, cleaning, laundry-the list is endless. Nourishing the relationships around you takes time, energy and effort and I know this is hard to come by, especially as a parent. When I sense a disconnect between myself and another person, I delve into my inner being and analyze how my actions, or lack thereof, may have impacted this disconnect. On this healing journey I recognize that self-awareness is a huge piece to the broken puzzle. When I am able to slow things down, process and get analytical about myself, I’ve come to some major breakthroughs.
I believe if we are able to shift the lens from blaming others to working on healing ourselves, heart to heart connections will begin to occur organically. I am magnetically drawn to people who show vulnerability and authenticity. That attitude and charisma in a person is truly infectious. I want to bask in their light and in their wisdom.
That is how I choose to lead my life.
I encourage you to show your true self as scary as that might seem. You’d be surprised at how many people are waiting to feel a deeper connection.
Limit the distractions around you.
Live purely and with authenticity.
Expand your heart and use it to guide you towards making new OR repairing old connections.
Fuel your spark for life by living with purpose.
The world could use more love, more purity, more spirituality, and divinity.
By Lauren Pacheco
